My Feelings Thermometer Worksheet
This visual worksheet helps children understand that emotions exist on a spectrum. Using a thermometer scale from 1 (calm) to 5 (overwhelmed), children learn to identify where they are emotionally and what strategies help them return to a calm state. It is a foundational tool for emotional self-regulation.
Materials Needed
- Printed worksheet
- Coloured pencils or crayons
- A quiet moment for conversation
Step-by-Step Instructions
- 1
Introduce the Thermometer
Explain that just like a thermometer measures temperature, this one measures feelings. 1 is cool and calm, 5 is very hot and overwhelmed.
- 2
Name the Levels
Go through each level together. Level 1: calm, relaxed. Level 2: a little worried or annoyed. Level 3: frustrated or upset. Level 4: angry or very anxious. Level 5: overwhelmed, out of control.
- 3
Colour the Thermometer
Let your child colour each level โ cool blues and greens at the bottom, warm oranges and reds at the top. This makes the concept visual and memorable.
- 4
Identify Coping Strategies
For each level, discuss what helps. Level 2: deep breaths. Level 3: talk to someone. Level 4: take a break. Write these on the worksheet.
- 5
Use It Daily
Put the thermometer on the fridge or bedroom wall. Check in regularly: "Where are you on the thermometer right now?" This normalises emotional awareness.
What Your Child Will Learn
- 1Emotional vocabulary โ naming feelings accurately
- 2Self-awareness โ recognising emotional states in real time
- 3Self-regulation โ matching coping strategies to emotional intensity
- 4Communication skills โ expressing feelings to others
- 5Resilience โ understanding that all emotions are temporary and manageable
Tips for Parents
Model the thermometer yourself: "I am at a 3 right now because I am feeling frustrated. I am going to take some deep breaths."
Never use the thermometer as punishment. It is a tool, not a behaviour chart.
Revisit and update the coping strategies as your child grows and discovers new ones.
Printable Worksheet Preview
MY FEELINGS THERMOMETER Name: _______________ 5 โโโโโโโโ OVERWHELMED โ I need help right now My body feels: _______________ What helps: _______________ 4 โโโโโโโ VERY UPSET โ I am struggling My body feels: _______________ What helps: _______________ 3 โโโโโโ FRUSTRATED โ Something is bothering me My body feels: _______________ What helps: _______________ 2 โโโโโ A LITTLE WORRIED โ I notice something My body feels: _______________ What helps: _______________ 1 โโโโ CALM โ I feel good My body feels: _______________ What helps: _______________ Right now I am at level: ___ I am going to: _______________